Inspire Us

Episode 104 - A few thoughts on self-sabotage and what I’ve learned along the way

In this enlightening podcast episode, J. Paul Nadeau, an expert in negotiation, conflict resolution, and self-sabotage, delves deep into the intriguing topic of self-sabotage. Nadeau, drawing from his wealth of experience as a former hostage negotiator, international peacekeeper, and professional interrogator, provides invaluable insights into understanding and conquering this pervasive human behavior.
**Understanding Self-Sabotage**
Nadeau begins by unraveling the enigma of self-sabotage. He explains that it's not just about making poor decisions or hindering one's own progress; it goes much deeper. Self-sabotage often stems from the dark narratives we create about ourselves and our abilities. These narratives, shaped by past experiences and beliefs, can hold us back and prevent us from reaching our full potential. 
**The Power of Positive Narratives and Action**
In his characteristic warm and confident style, Nadeau emphasizes the importance of combating these dark narratives with positive ones. He highlights that it's not enough to merely think positively; action is key. Nadeau draws parallels to the iconic speech by Rocky Balboa, where the boxing legend reminds his son that life isn't all rainbows and sunshine. Just as Rocky implores his son to keep moving forward, Nadeau encourages us to take meaningful steps towards our goals, even in the face of adversity.
Nadeau's personal anecdotes and experiences as a hostage negotiator and peacekeeper add depth to his insights. He shares how he had to overcome self-doubt and fear in high-stakes situations, relying on positive narratives and decisive action to navigate through challenges successfully.
**Rebounding from Adversity**
Another profound aspect of this episode is Nadeau's discussion on rebounding from adversity and setbacks. He acknowledges that life can throw curveballs, but it's how we respond that defines our journey. Drawing on his diverse background, Nadeau illustrates how resilience and determination can lead to remarkable comebacks.
Throughout the podcast, Nadeau's warm and personable style keeps listeners engaged and inspired. His ability to blend his professional expertise with relatable anecdotes makes complex topics like self-sabotage accessible to everyone.
In conclusion, this podcast episode featuring J. Paul Nadeau is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and conquer self-sabotage. With his unique blend of wisdom, experience, and positivity, Nadeau provides a roadmap to break free from limiting narratives and take meaningful action on the path to personal growth and success. It's a journey that, as Rocky Balboa reminds us, might not always be easy, but it's undoubtedly worth it. So, lace up your mental gloves and get ready to conquer your self-sabotage tendencies with the guidance of a true expert.

Episode 103: Tommy Jackson: Living one day at a time

Tommy Jackson has an incredible past and rejoices in helping others reach their full potential. His life purpose is to help others find their true potential. His accomplishments in business, music, coaching and mentoring youth span three decades. His efforts in the music industry have achieved over 175 consecutive sold out shows, placed artists in the Billboard Top 20, earned features in national publications and received music placements on TV shows, national commercials and promos. You have recently heard FNE's songs on The Today Show, World of Dance, American Idol, The Voice, Grey’s Anatomy, First Kill, Council of Dads, I Love Kellie Pickler, Black Ink Crew, The Neighborhood and more.
Some of Tommy’s achievements outside of music include: • Recognized as AUM’s Top 50 Most Influential Alumni • Awarded AUM Business Alumni of the Year 2017 • Ranked #1 financial advisor for the state of Alabama according to “Barron’s Top 100” List (2013) • Honored by Barron's magazine as a Top 1,000 Advisor (2009, 2011 & 2013) and as a Top 1,200 Advisor (2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, & 2018) • Named to the Forbes “Best-In-State Wealth Advisors” List (2018 & 2019) • 3 Alabama State Championships (Coach @ Briarwood Christian High School)
In this podcast Tommy joins Paul to discuss the importance of taking control of our lives and living with intention.
Reach out to Tommy:www.tommyjacksonofficial.com
www.firstnoteentertainment.com
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Episode 102: Sales Savviness with Vikram Deol and J. Paul Nadeau

The world of sales and negotiations is one everyone should master in their lives. In these turbulent times, knowing how to sell and negotiate can make the difference between making ends meet and meeting the end. In this episode, sales expert and coach Vikram Deol speaks with Paul on the topic of selling from the heart.
 
About Vikram:
Coach Vikram has been teaching sales and influence since the ripe age of 17. He immediately fell in love with growing others and watching them succeed. As the years progressed, Coach Vee (as his clients call him) found that teaching others to be successful was more rewarding than doing it on his own.
 
After 3 years in real estate and close to $50,000,000 in personal sales, he brought on his first team member and worked with him to grow him into a multiple 6 figure earner. Vikram created systems and training that allowed him to continue to serve his clients to build a large real estate team that crossed over $250,000,000 in sales in a few short years.
 
Vikram has had businesses in tele-communications, health and wellness, flipping homes, Cutco and of course real estate sales and coaching.
 
He is passionate about self-growth, and spent a year touring the world as a Tony Robbins Groupie, has spent 100's of hours in meditation retreats, 50+ hours in relationship courses and 1000's of hours in sales and business seminars. His thirst for knowledge is unparalleled.
 
Vikram is a heart centered individual and teaches how to lead with your heart to create genuine connections with prospects and clients.
 
You will find Vikram after hours, cooking with friends, cycling the world, at the gym, or reading. He keeps himself busy with living life to the fullest and we welcome you to follow his journey on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube.
@coachvikramdeol
 
 

Episode 101: Burak Yilmaz - If My Mother Never Left

Burak Yilmaz was thrown into Turkish prison in 2002. His crime? Being a homosexual. Burak had written a Sex in the City-style book about the gay community and his gay exploits in Islamic Turkey, hoping an anonymous pen name would keep him safe. Once the book hit bestseller, the Turkish government came looking. After years of torture in prison, Burak was released. He immediately fled to New York, where he endured homelessness, sexual abuse, and racism while working to become a registered nurse. His new book, If My Mother Never Left, details his incredible journey from torture to freedom.
BIO: Burak Yilmaz was born and raised in Turkey. He always wanted to write, using it as an escape from the harsh reality of being forced to hide who and what he truly was. Life took a twist when Burak’s father discovered his son was gay. At just seventeen years old, Burak was thrown out into the streets and left to survive on his own in a society that didn’t want him. Instead of breaking, Burak summoned the depths of his strength and wrote his first book.Burak published his first book at twenty-two years old. He wrote the book under the penname Devrim Yilmaz to protect himself from dangers that will come from writing such a book called Bir Escinselin Siradan Hikayesi (An Ordinary Story of a Homosexual) became an instant bestseller, earning him accolades and unwanted attention. Burak was arrested and tortured after completing a television interview. Again, Burak clung to his self and, after being released, managed to escape Turkey. His journey took him to the United States, where he currently resides.Life seldom asks what we want, however. Burak worked as a model for erotic magazines, websites, and worked in some of the most popular nightclubs in New York City. It was a poison filled life, leaving him at the point of moral bankruptcy, depressed, and suicidal.The light dawned on Burak after checking in to a rehab psychiatric facility and he turned his life around. After receiving his GED, he graduated from nursing school at NYU with honors and multiple scholarships. Now a successful Registered Nurse in critical care settings, Burak is pursuing his degree in Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner.Once again, Burak opened up the depths of his soul for the world to read. If my Mother Never Left, is detailing raw and emotional events after his first book.
 
Check out his book and story: "If My Mother Never Left," and his website:
www.burak212.com 
 

Episode 100: The Badass Guide to Conflict Resolution: What is a Badass and why should I care to be one?

Welcome to episode 100 of "Inspire Us!" In this episode, I discuss my book, "The Badass Guide to Conflict Resolution," but more specifically "What is a Badass and Why should I care to be one?"
Being a badass doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing - in fact, a good badass is what we should all strive to be! A good badass is confident, charismatic, assertive, and much more. 
Join me and listen to my definition of badass. Once you do, go out into the world and be the badass you were designed to be.

Episode 99: Negotiate Your Way Out of Self-Sabotage - Clubhouse recording, January 14th, 2023

Episode 99 of Inspire Us brings you yet another inspiring and helpful Clubhouse room on negotiating our way out of self-sabotage. Tune into this episode and receive some uplifting encouragement to help you through your week.

Episode 98: Negotiate Your Way Out of Self-Sabotage Clubhouse recording, November 05, 2022

Another Clubhouse recording on how to Negotiate Your Way out Of Self-Sabotage, recorded November 5th, 2022. This episode deals with many different mental wellness issues, as do all the rooms and is a great listen sure to help you in your life.

Episode 97: Negotiate your way out of self-sabotage Clubhouse audio - 29-Oct-2022

Another Clubhouse recording to help you beat self-sabotage. This one was recorded on October 29th, 2022